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Sex & Relationship Therapist, Speaker and Teacher in sexuality

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I’ve recently completed the intermediate level of the sensual massage course, and the experience was absolutely phenomenal. I’m now excited to take the next step into the professional level.

I want to express my sincere appreciation for Colin, whose teaching was outstanding throughout. His approach was respectful, knowledgeable, non- judgemental and truly supportive. Each session was well-structured and thoughtfully balanced between theory and hands-on practice.

Every session provided valuable insights—not only about technique, but also about connection, presence, and understanding sensuality on a deeper level. The practice sessions were a highlight, made possible thanks to the volunteers, whose participation was essential and deeply appreciated.

Most importantly, Colin helped me better understand women’s sensuality and pleasure in a way I had never imagined. It’s been an enlightening and transformative journey that has truly expanded my perspective.

Highly recommended for anyone serious about learning this art with depth, respect, and integrity.
Hi Colin,

Before we meet again for the intermediate level training, I wanted to share with you some of the unbelievably positive developments in my sensual & relationship life since the foundation training back in February this year.

As you remember, my wife S**** had been an occasional client of yours since the early days of your practice, and she was always super happy - having had some of the best sensual experiences & orgasms as part of her massages with you. Late last year I decided that I wanted to learn some of these skills directly from you and signed up for the combined beginners and intermediate classes, of which we held the first set in February.

The positive impact on our relationship was profound - and here I want to just briefly mention the main areas, in no particular order - we can speak more when we next meet:

The training, but also the related conversations we had on the topic of sensuality, sexuality, orgasms etc - also in speaking with the female volunteers of my training sessions - gave me a language to talk really openly about this. I never felt particularly inhibited, but post training I had hours of very entertaining conversations with my wife about sexual preferences, desires, pleasures, orgasms, what we each like and would love to have more of, how to get there, and a lot more. That was an amazing opening, and I learned sooo many good new things about my partner - and we have been together for 20 years!

This in turn really really inspired exploration if our sensual & sex life - once we had a real language for it, and understood each other’s likings and desires, nothing kept us from pursuing whatever seemed right. In doing so, the actual physical massages as such are a part of the whole, but the impact was much wider. I would say that the massage-related skills have become part of a wider sexual skill set I have acquired, and elements of it - more so than separate full massage sessions - feature prominently in any form of bedroom fun since then.

Having these skills - at least on some foundational level - has also given me the confidence that I can always make an encounter with a woman physically and sensually pleasant for her - and for me - even if sex per se was not part of the plan in that moment (actually more so than with ‘only sex’).

The sensual skills (or massage skills) are also a much lower threshold thing to engage in than sex, and while a massage may very well lead to sex, it can also exist independently and create perfectly pleasurable outcomes. We also found that sex becomes a far more relaxed and enjoyable experience when she already had a few orgasms before sex even starts :)

Which brings me to the last & least expected thing that has changed: the experience with you - my wife as a massage client, me as a student (and client) - has made sensual pleasure a desirable thing in its own right that can & should be pursued freely and openly. And in doing so, we have now opened up beyond the usual restrictions of the traditional monogamous relationship, without taking away anything from the deep & exclusive emotional connection we have between the two of us - quite the contrary, these new experiences ‘outside’ brought us even closer as a couple.

So - a lot of very good things happened since the first training with you, and I can 100% say that the impact on our relationship - and on my wider life & life satisfaction - has been profoundly positive well beyond my biggest expectations.

Look forward to seeing you soon for the intermediate training!
Colin listened to my reasons for me doing the course and advised me accordingly. His professionalism before and during the sessions was exceptional knowing my anxiety levels.
He prepared me well in advance with written notes as well as verbal instructions.
Colin took into account my request on volunteers and made sure I and they would be compatible for the massages.
I have completed the course feeling more confident within myself and able to offer something different within a relationship.
I highly recommend Colin as a tutor as well as an instructor. His course is very inspirational.
Thank you so much Colin for believing in me and helping me.
We decided on a course with *** because we’d been married for 7 years and had a young child and really felt the need to inject some new energy into our sex lives. The day we spent with *** was incredible - very fun and very pleasurable. It really helped us to connect to each other better physically. ***’s course gave us the time and space for exploration which we never have at home and we also had *** guiding us wonderfully through it all. We really recommend this course. Sadly we never get the time to give each other a full massage but we have managed to incorporate some of the techniques into our love life and hopefully one day will manage to find the time. Maybe when our son is older! We really do recommend this course and hope you enjoy it as much as we did.
I had an incredible experience with Colin after seeking help for anorgasmia. I felt safe and supported and Colin was adept at reading my body and when to take control or allow me to take further control. I feel like I’ve unlocked a new level of sensual potential and have felt very grounded and a huge sense of wellbeing after experiencing an orgasm for the first time. This allowed me to shift some emotions that I think my body had been holding for some time. I’m feeling so grateful and excited for the future.
Having visited Colin on a number of occasions now, initially for a psychosensual treatment and then for further massages I only wish it’s something I has done sooner as it’s been a part of positively changing multiple elements of my life.
What stands out the most has always been the attentiveness to my comfort and boundaries combined with Colin’s professional knowledge resulting in a uniquely safe space.
The treatments themselves are physical pleasurable but also leave me with a deep sense of tranquility and an emotional release.
By the end, I feel completely relaxed and rejuvenated, with a sense of peace that lingers well beyond the session. For me a sensual massage with Colin is an amazing way to both de-stress and reconnect with my body.
This was my first sensual massage. *** welcomed me and made sure that I was relaxed and comfortable before we proceeded with the massage. The journey begins...
It was a wonderful experience. Highly recommend!
I received a wonderful massage from *** quite recently, my second from him, both very memorable. He is extremely professional while also being quite adventurous. The massage was comfortably strong and yet also caring and supportive. There was a great freedom in being unclothed and undraped. and I felt totally comfortable and free. He was in control of any arousal and steered me confidently towards a fulfilling release. He was happy to share himself which felt nicely balanced. He is not cheap but I would recommend him enthusiastically.
I recently did the pleasure my woman workshops with Intimacy Matters.

I reached out to Colin wanting to become more confident with my ability to give sensual touch.

I highly recommend the experience as it has not only given me new insights and tools, but also helped me self reflect on my reasoning for seek such help.

It also helped me frame how I would like to move forward in the future in relation to myself as a receiver of sensual touch.

Colin is extremely knowledgeable and welcoming. He meets you where you are and gives you the confidence through clear guidance and support.

I whole heartedly recommend this for anyone wishing to grow spiritually, emotionally and as a sensual being.

I thought about it for a long time before finally deciding to move forward and only wish I had done it sooner!

Rik

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