Hi Colin,
Before we meet again for the intermediate level training, I wanted to share with you some of the unbelievably positive developments in my sensual & relationship life since the foundation training back in February this year.
As you remember, my wife S**** had been an occasional client of yours since the early days of your practice, and she was always super happy - having had some of the best sensual experiences & orgasms as part of her massages with you. Late last year I decided that I wanted to learn some of these skills directly from you and signed up for the combined beginners and intermediate classes, of which we held the first set in February.
The positive impact on our relationship was profound - and here I want to just briefly mention the main areas, in no particular order - we can speak more when we next meet:
The training, but also the related conversations we had on the topic of sensuality, sexuality, orgasms etc - also in speaking with the female volunteers of my training sessions - gave me a language to talk really openly about this. I never felt particularly inhibited, but post training I had hours of very entertaining conversations with my wife about sexual preferences, desires, pleasures, orgasms, what we each like and would love to have more of, how to get there, and a lot more. That was an amazing opening, and I learned sooo many good new things about my partner - and we have been together for 20 years!
This in turn really really inspired exploration if our sensual & sex life - once we had a real language for it, and understood each other’s likings and desires, nothing kept us from pursuing whatever seemed right. In doing so, the actual physical massages as such are a part of the whole, but the impact was much wider. I would say that the massage-related skills have become part of a wider sexual skill set I have acquired, and elements of it - more so than separate full massage sessions - feature prominently in any form of bedroom fun since then.
Having these skills - at least on some foundational level - has also given me the confidence that I can always make an encounter with a woman physically and sensually pleasant for her - and for me - even if sex per se was not part of the plan in that moment (actually more so than with ‘only sex’).
The sensual skills (or massage skills) are also a much lower threshold thing to engage in than sex, and while a massage may very well lead to sex, it can also exist independently and create perfectly pleasurable outcomes. We also found that sex becomes a far more relaxed and enjoyable experience when she already had a few orgasms before sex even starts :)
Which brings me to the last & least expected thing that has changed: the experience with you - my wife as a massage client, me as a student (and client) - has made sensual pleasure a desirable thing in its own right that can & should be pursued freely and openly. And in doing so, we have now opened up beyond the usual restrictions of the traditional monogamous relationship, without taking away anything from the deep & exclusive emotional connection we have between the two of us - quite the contrary, these new experiences ‘outside’ brought us even closer as a couple.
So - a lot of very good things happened since the first training with you, and I can 100% say that the impact on our relationship - and on my wider life & life satisfaction - has been profoundly positive well beyond my biggest expectations.
Look forward to seeing you soon for the intermediate training!